Tissue Alert: Even though I try to keep things very positive and uplifting on the Daily Dog Tag, there is a place for posts like this one. Because almost every reader who comes here understands what it is like to love a dog with all your heart. Zeus was a senior Pit Bull-Boxer mix who became quite ill. As a quick reminder, please get professional portraits of your pets while you can.
Photographer Nicole Maddalone took these photos on Zeus’ last day, and they are very touching, but also quite sad. If you think they might be too heart-breaking, feel free to skip this post. However, if you need something to smile Bailey’s story is pure happiness.
From Nicole: “On May 5, 2017, on our ninth anniversary, we had to lay our dog Zeus to rest. He was 18 years old. He was my husband’s best friend. My husband’s mother adopted Zeus for him when he was only a 12-year-old boy, and Zeus was already around 1. This dog was almost human, he sure loved like one and had the appetite of one. Zeus was a beautiful boy with such an amazing spirit. He healed my sad heart so many times. Zeus lived to see the birth of both our little boys. He went from normal to really sick seemingly overnight. It went on for two weeks, and he kept declining and couldn’t walk or eat or drink, but he just hung on. I don’t think he wanted to leave us. He refused. So we had to make a choice, and so we decided to have a veterinarian come to our home and put him to rest while we held him and hugged him. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done. Our other dog, Addy was heartbroken, and it was very noticeable. She stayed by his side for days before he passed and for most of that day. We did remove her from the room while it happened but immediately let her come in to sniff and understand he was gone. Her moment of realization was just so painful because she whined and just laid next to him. Our toddler was so sad, and we didn’t quite understand how to explain it to a 2-year-old.
Below, is my post from when I told the social media world of our loss.
‘It seems about right that it should be raining today. Nine years ago on my front steps, your daddy asked me if I would be his girlfriend. We were young and crazy teenagers. I didn’t know the journey that was ahead of us. That was the beginning of my becoming your mommy. Zeus. In all this time, you saw us through so many adventures and road bumps in our relationship and lives. You saw every one of our firsts, and you saw us through our wedding and the birth of both of our little boys. You have always been so tolerant of us; we know we aren’t always perfect. You surely taught me patience, because let’s face, you were always a bit of a handful. But, I loved your personality, it was so spirited and loving and compassionate. We always said you were not a dog, but a human given another chance. 17 years. You lived 17 long, years and for 15 of them, you were with people who deeply loved your crazy, energetic, always happy, self. These last two weeks were some of the hardest times I’ve had as I watch you rapidly decline, and there was nothing I could do to make it better. It was so hard carrying you around everywhere and trying to help you eat and drink. A little more of my heart broke every single day. I just wanted to make you better. But, I couldn’t live in denial anymore, so I know that letting you go was the best thing for you. I am so blessed to have been with you for more than half your life. And truthfully, I didn’t deserve such a sweet dog like you. But, God put you in my life for a reason, and you helped shape me. I love you.
I’m going to miss your persistent barking when you refused to stay outside.
I’m going to miss you chasing us around barking and trying to bite the vacuum because it was your arch nemesis.
I’m going to miss the way you’d walk over to where Addy was laying and just sit on her.
I’m going to miss watching you do tricks for treats.
I’m going to actually miss being flabbergasted on how you managed to get into every garbage can no matter how fancy we got with it.
I’m going to miss having one the best snuggle partners there ever was.
I’m going to miss your funny hopping around you did when you were excited.
I’m going to miss your consistent, up my butt wherever I am companionship. Even though I know it made me crazy sometimes.
Mostly, I’m just really going to miss you.’
Never ever, take your pets for granted, not even for a second. Because God’s timing isn’t always in line with yours. And there’s never enough time, and you’re never ready to say goodbye.”
You can see more of Zeus’ session on Nicole’s blog.
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About Nicole Maddalone Photography: Based in Saratoga Springs, New York, Nicole specializes in newborn and family photography.
Nicole Maddalone Photography says
Thank you for featuring our story and our beloved, Zeus. We miss him so much and it’s nice to share him with the world. He really was an amazing dog.
misterdebs says
What a story!! He obviously was a good boi, and he had a loving family till the end. Now Zeus is up there playing with the other good doggos.
Indya | The Small Adventurer says
Oh, this truly is heartbreaking, but I love that you can tell how much the family love this dog with all their heart. All my partner talk about is getting our own house and finally being able to get pets, but I know that means someday we’ll have to say goodbye to them, and I don’t want to!
Jana Rade says
So sorry about your loss. That is always so heartbreaking. Their souls live even when their bodies leave. I truly believe that. <3
Beth says
I believe that too.
Blue DeBell says
I am so sorry for your loss <3 losing a pet is always so hard 🙁
Candy says
Pit bulls have gotten a bad reputation unfortunately. Where my daughter lives they have a list of breeds not allowed.
Beth says
It is such a shame that there are laws that ban specific breeds, rather than judge dogs as individuals.
Alice G Patterson says
Wow, Zeus lived such a long and loving life! Sharing this story and these heartfelt images is truly a gift to all of us and a great reminder to never take our pets for granted.
Teresa says
that was kind of you to take the time to write about a pet that someone loved so very much. We have a rabbit and he is quite old and I know my chidlrne will be heartbroken when the time comes
Jeanette says
This breaks my heart! It was so obvious that the dog was very loved. You did what was right for him so that he would not suffer anymore. It does not make the pain any less. I am lost a few dogs in my day and I can hardly handle it every single time. Just know that Zeus is in a better place watching over you guys from there.
Sarah Bailey says
What some absolutely beautiful photographs and what a story. Zeus was a beautiful dog and I send so much love to the family who have lost a member.
cait says
aww i am so sorry for your loss but loving hearing what an amazing story you had with Zeus. What a beautiful tribute
Amber Myers says
Oh no, this is tough. It’s always hard when a pet dies. They are part of the family, so it hurt a ton.
Marcie W. says
How tragic! We lost our pit bull boxer mix in the summer of 2017 and there is still a large hole in my heart. Sending peace and love to this family during such a difficult time.
Tasheena says
Thank you for sharing this families story. Losing a fur baby is so hard. Especially, when you have other animals and children in the home.
Pam says
What a sweet story about a precious dog. Pets are really like part of the family, so it’s so sad to see them leave us.
Heather says
I’m so sorry for your loss! We just recently rescued our first family dog and we are already so attached. I’m dreading the day (even if it’s years and years from now), when we have to say goodbye.
Heather says
I’m so sorry for the loss of your dog. It sounds like he was really part of the family. Your pictures are wonderful. It sounds like you truly gave this animal a wonderful life.
Chubskulit Rose says
This is so sad. Losing a pet is like losing a human being, their love is unconditional.
Terri says
Losing a pet is so difficult. The photos and the post show how well you loved your pet.
Catalina says
These photos are so beautiful: first, because they are the last ones, second, because you did it to make some photos and this is so precious. You can read the sadness in Zeus’ eyes…
Nancy at Whispered Inspirations says
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the feeling. These are beautiful photos though.
Swathi says
Very sweet sorry of precious dog. Yes they are family member too we miss them when they are gone.
Cathy Mini says
That is such a great story what a perfect and happy family together. Sorry for your loss he is a good and sweet family member too run free furbaby.
Rebecca Sanchez says
Oh man, I’ve lived this and it just never gets easier. But the joy and love between Zeus and his people is so evident – and bless their hearts. I will keep everyone in my prayers.
The Dash Kitten Crew says
That picture of the guy holding his dog close gets you in the heart – really hard.
Sues had a lovely and loving family. What a great dog.